So tonight I had a set back. I gave my husband a hug and kiss as he tottled off to bed and I noticed he had his wedding ring on his pinky. I asked him what's up and he said, "my finger is swollen." I looked at him kinda funny and I said, "swollen?" and he said, "well what do you want me to say, I'm fat and it doesn't fit!" Then he walked off to the bedroom.
At that point I realized I have been the worst wife in the world. I know he's an adult and is responsible for himself, but I feel like I have failed him. With our work schedules, him working days and me working nights, I don't get to be home much and make dinners so he fends for himself. Most nights when I get home I see left over pizza in the 'fridge, empty soda bottles, or an empty bag from Jack in the Box in the office.
I really want us to work at this together and it's just so hard. I don't have much energy in the morning from working until late and he's tired when he gets home and is in bed by the time I get home. I get every Sunday off and we do go out and have fun, but I wish we did more active things together. We have been married for almost 2 years, June 7th is our anniversary. We want to start having kids, but right now with my weight it's impossible. I'm somewhat depressed when it comes to this situation and feel like I'm not getting the support I need from Jerry. He thinks it's just all going to be okay and it'll be easy to start a family when I know it's not.
Plus, who wants to be so overweight that they can't run after their kids and play with them? Not me! But I need help!
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
My Review of Shimano WM40 Multisport Bike Shoes - Women's - '09 Closeout
The Shimano WM40 Multisport Bike Shoes offer rigid pedal support and lightweight walking traction. These shoes are perfect on urban and mountain trails.
Great! But don't follow the size chart..
By earlander from Auburn, WA on 5/11/2010
Gift: Yes
Sizing: Feels full size too big
Width: Feels true to width
Pros: Simple to Use, Well Ventilated, Durable Sole, Good Traction
Describe Yourself: Casual/ Recreational
Best Uses: Casual Trails
I originally bought this pair, size 41, for my mom who wears an 8. I asked around about Shimano, and a few people said this size would work for her because of how Shimano fit. But when I received it, it fit me! I normally wear a 9.5-10 and based off the Shimano size chart, this shouldn't have fit me at all. So I ended up keeping this pair for myself and ordering a size 39 and 40 for my mom because I'm not sure what will fit her now. These will be great for riding and walking around while the bike is locked up. They are comfortable, sturdy, good quality and look great! You definitely can't beat the price!
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